This phrase is used in some places in Mexico by the license and freedom of expression of the people as: that the Lady is agreed to have sex, at the time of an assault to ask you to give your belongings, at the time of collection example: already to pay me loosens the money I owe. It is loosening. One thing to lose force that gets soft you lose power, example already loosen screw, rust lost its power and will loosen the nut.